Perspective from...a Plant?

I have a tree outside my house that blooms for three weeks every year. Rhododendrons- about as confusing of a name as Ohio weather. Through our uncertain on what to wear (but certainly rainy and cold) falls, winters, and springs, it’s just stubby sticks and muted greenery.

But for those few weeks where it is in full bloom, it could inspire a Miley Cyrus song or be seen in a watercolor painting. Vibrant shades of pink give new contrast to my lawn. Compliments ensue from people that walk down my street. I will not lie, it’s made a great backdrop for some photos (thanks, Steph). It’s timing, an end-of-spring staple, is usually a sign that warmer weather is on its way. Ah, yes…an end to winter blues and vitamin deficiencies. In a showdown of darkness and light, the sun wins the battle.

What’s the point of something so beautiful only sticking around for a fleeting moment? I know this plant cannot decide its fate, but clearly it’s a lot of work to only be beautiful for a handful of days each year. I am not sure who the homeowner was before me that saw the value in such a plant, but now it is mine. I am often too impatient to see the worth in a plant like this. Wouldn't roses have been a better choice? I want to experience the beauty for a longer period of time. I don't like when good times end- I sometimes struggle with closing doors, even when they don't align with what I want or need.

So, I largely forget about my Rhododendrons until they bloom again. However, watching small slivers of pink peep out from the green this morning, I realized that this plant was a symbol for a few things in my life. In moments of stress or frustration, I often forget about the glimmers of good that are present in my world- no matter their length. Little acts of kindness, celebratory moments, and new connections can come out of nowhere. Some good things take time, and impatience needs to sit in the back seat. Finally, while it's easy to chase glittery moments in time, life is about finding the people who will sit with you when you are celebrating in full bloom, or when you are working through your quieter seasons.

It's okay to grow on your own terms, with your needs in mind, on your own timeframe. There's beauty to be found in seasons of stillness. You just have to remember that underground, behind the scenes, or even for a short time, they come around.